Heart breaks are the stepping stones towards success!! ❤️

Hey guys, this is my first blog and you might think why I'm starting with a sad one. The day when we came to this Earth, were we laughing?? No we came with a loud crying sound to this Earth and we go back with the same sound underneath the ground, the only difference here is we cry and come to Earth while others are happy welcoming us and while we depart we go with a smile and others who bid adieu to us cry for losing us. This is life! In my life I have experienced a huge loss which is irreplaceable. I lost my uncle who was so close to me whom I loved the most. The last moments of him cannot be erased from my memory till by last breath. The same way you would have lost someone who is irreplaceable in your life, but that's not the end of your life. You have a life ahead of you which the person who has left had built for you or dreamt for you. You should work towards your goal in life and never stop until you achieve it. The first and foremost thing is don't underestimate yourself. Look yourself in the mirror, you decide what you want to do and believe in yourself. You can definitely succeed in everything you want to. 

  You know how controlling some boyfriends be like?? Let me share an incident of my friend. Appu was 16 and a guy was madly in love with her and he proposed her, she rejected him. The guy didn't stop over there he continued to prove her that he was truly in love with her and after a struggle of 6 months she couldn't resist and she accepted her love towards him. Things were going good till 4 months and then came a storm. We are in high school and moving to the next class 12th standard. The guy was not the same anymore, he started questioning her everyday activities and the persons whom ever she interacted with. We both are jovial people and we talk to almost everyone in the school. We both don't have much restrictions in our home and that's because our parents trusted us more. Appu and Anish are my friends and Akash is Appu's boyfriend. Akash wanted to keep Appu away from Anish and had put forth a condition towards Appu to choose between them. She can either choose her love or her friend, but she has to choose any one only. She was broken, with hard heart believing that her friend will not mistake her she chose Akash over Anish (love over friendship). 

Akash started showing his true colors. He started controlling her from changing her Facebook password, and chatting with her friends via her Facebook account and spying her on everything. Appu tolerated everything. The Final exams were nearing and everyone were busy with studies, tuitions and slam books. Akash stopped talking with Appu and she was devasted and stopped concentrating on her studies. She longed for him to talk, but he was such an selfish person. Did you guess what might be the reason? 

Let me tell you, he was concentrating on his studies and was focusing on his things alone. I understood everything and I warned Appu to concentrate on her studies. She was a bright student, she kept her feelings aside and started her preparations for the exam. Results came and Akash cracked the exams with a good score and Appu also cracked the exam but she didn't score well, teachers were shocked with the results. Even while choosing college most of our friends fell in the same college wherein Appu waited for Akash's approval.Akash chose Mechanical engineering and his college was 1.5 miles away from Appu 's college.

  It wasn't an usual life for Appu as she didn't have her friends in college, she started missing her friends and the way she used to be. So she decided to mingle with her classmates and then Akash' s entry came into the picture. He didn't allow her to do that. You know what happened?? Akash started dating Appu's best friend in college, Riya. Appu accidentally got to know about the relationship between Riya and Akash. But cunning Akash got to know that Appu is aware and he framed Riya as culprit. Poor Appu believed him and befriended Riya. 

  Akash had other cunning plans as well. In a month after the incident, Akash broke up with Appu stating his parents were not ready to accept their relationship. This happened when Appu and Akash were 18 years old, Appu struggled, begged but nothing happened. Akash left just like that and Appu kept weeping. After 3 months, Appu was in the same condition, we got to know that Akash was in an other relationship, and the girl was his college mate. So that's the reason for leaving Appu! 

  I met Appu, I consoled her and told her the truth about Akash. Appu was shocked, but then she realized she had lost so many things in her life in the past 2 years. Appu was way more close to Anish than me. She talked with Anish, and he consoled her and also told her that he won't forgive her. Appu was disappointed, she was heart broken 💔. She decided not to trust anyone, she wanted to be the old care-free happy going girl. She stopped crying, she made herself strong and she became a bold girl, a new Appu was reborn. All our classmates supported Appu and we all are best friends till date. That moment she believed in herself and that's what changed her life. 

After 4 years, You know, how is Appu today? She is a strong, independent working woman in an reputed IT organization. She has so many friends, but ya I'm her very close and best friend even today. I would conclude with one of my favorite quote, "you cannot go back and make a brand new beginning but you can go forward and make a brand new ending" Live your life to the fullest with no regrets!! Only you can be there for yourself. Friends are precious gifts given to us by God. Kalam sir said, "if you have a good friend it's equal to an library". In my words, I'm lucky enough to have libraries with me. It's my personal experience do update your views in the comments and share it with your friends if you liked it. Cheers 🥂 to all!! ❤️